Getting an inheritance can feel very much like a mixed blessing. It often comes after the passing of a loved one – while you’re dealing with the emotions of losing them and trying to organize financial and administrative affairs.
You can’t always predict what is left in a will, but if you have received or anticipate receiving some type of inheritance, there are important things to consider that can help you prepare for the issues that heirs face. Here are my top four.
1. Expect the Process to Take Time.
Settling an estate is a big task. When a decedent’s affairs aren’t in order, it’s an even bigger task. In fact, Gallup estimates that less than half of U.S. adults (46%) habe a Will.
The probate process can be avoided if assets are held in trust, but even distributions from trusts carry their own complexities at times. Because of that and many other potential speed bumps along the way, settling an estate can take several months, sometimes years. Knowing that will help you manage expectations related to the timing of when you’ll receive your inheritance.
The executor (the person appointed to administer the will) must notify beneficiaries and interested parties, pay outstanding bills, close accounts, take inventory of assets and determine if any of the assets not part of the will must go through probate. Then they must file with the IRS to pay taxes. Only after all of that is taken care of can the assets finally be distributed to close the estate.
2. Have a Plan for the Money.
Take your time. Getting an inheritance can feel like found money, and we often fall prey to a bias called mental accounting, where we sort o ur money into different “accounts” and so treat each group of money differently. In a particular case study, researcher Richard Thaler, the person attributed to the concept of mental accounting, found that people are more likely to spend a small inheritance and invest a large one.
Factors such as where the money came from or its intended use influence how it’s spent (or saved), but a dollar that you are given should be treated just the same as a dollar that’s earned.
This phenomenon is influenced by several psychological and financial factors:
A. Mental Accounting – People tend to treat "windfall" money (like inheritances, lottery winnings, or bonuses) differently from their regular income. A small inheritance is often categorized as "found money," making it easier to justify discretionary spending rather than saving or investing it.
B. Lack of a Long-Term Plan – Larger inheritances may prompt recipients to consult financial advisors, leading to structured investments or estate planning. In contrast, smaller amounts often don’t seem "worth" professional planning and are spent more casually on immediate wants or needs.
C. Emotional Spending – Some heirs see an inheritance as a way to honor the deceased by making purchases that feel meaningful, such as a vacation, a new car, or a luxury item the decedent might have appreciated. This emotional connection can make spending feel justified, even if it’s not the most financially prudent choice.
D. Liquidity and Accessibility – A small inheritance is often received in cash or as easily accessible funds, making it convenient to spend. Larger inheritances, by contrast, may include real estate, trusts, or investment accounts with restrictions, which naturally encourage preservation rather than immediate use.
E. Loss Aversion & Risk Tolerance – Those receiving a large inheritance may feel a stronger need to protect and preserve wealth, knowing it has the potential to sustain their financial security. Conversely, a smaller sum may not feel as critical to safeguard, making spending seem more acceptable, as there’s less perceived loss in doing so.
F. Debt Reduction vs. Investment – Many recipients of smaller inheritances use the funds to pay off credit card debt or loans rather than investing them. While debt repayment is a responsible financial move, it may not provide the long-term wealth-building benefits that investing a larger sum would offer.
G. Lifestyle Inflation – Even if the amount isn’t significant in the long run, a sudden influx of money can lead to temporary lifestyle upgrades, such as an expensive purchase, dining out more frequently, or leisure spending. Without a strategy for managing the funds, recipients may find themselves back at square one financially once the money runs out.
This is an opportunity to put the money toward some practicalities, including ways to help protect your future. Before taking off to spend the inheritance on fun stuff, consider building up your emergency fund, paying off high-interest rate debt, and putting some savings toward long-term goals.
Strategies for Paying Off Multiple Credit Card Balances:
If you’re juggling balances on multiple credit cards, choosing the right repayment strategy can make all the difference. There are three primary approaches to tackling credit card debt, each with its own advantages.
A. The Avalanche Method
The avalanche approach prioritizes efficiency and minimizing interest costs. Start by focusing on the card with the highest interest rate while making minimum payments on all others. Once you eliminate the highest-interest balance, redirect those payments to the next highest-rate card. This method reduces the total interest paid over time and speeds up debt elimination.
B. The Snowball Method
For those who find motivation in quick wins, the snowball approach may be a better fit. Rather than targeting high-interest debts first, focus on paying off the smallest balances. Once you clear a low-balance card, roll those payments into the next smallest debt. While this strategy may result in paying more interest over time, the psychological boost from early successes can help maintain momentum.
C. The Blizzard Method
A hybrid of the two, the blizzard method combines motivation with financial efficiency. Begin by paying off a small-balance card to gain a sense of accomplishment, then transition to the avalanche approach, prioritizing high-interest debts. This strategy provides the motivation of an early win while keeping long-term interest costs in check.
Regardless of which method you choose, it's essential to balance debt repayment with financial security. While aggressive debt payoff may limit your ability to save, aim to build an emergency fund covering at least three months of expenses. Once your debts are cleared, shift your focus toward savings and investments to prevent future financial setbacks.
By choosing a strategy that aligns with both your financial goals and motivation style, you can take control of your credit card debt and build a stronger financial future.
Once you’ve addressed your financial priorities, then it’s OK to start thinking about spending the money on something fun. Maybe you’ll want to plan a trip somewhere that was special to you and your loved one, or support a cause that was close to their heart. Or maybe there’s an utterly impractical purchase that you’ve always hankered after. All these are even more enjoyable when your mind isn’t burdened with competing financial goals.
3. Seek Advice From Professionals.
The rules on inheriting assets can be nuanced. For example, there are times when inheritors may have what’s called a step-up-in-basis provision for taxes. This allows heirs to have the valuation of their inherited property be equal to its fair market value at the date of death – instead of the lower price at which it was purchased. This is a strategy that helps minimize capital gains taxes on inherited assets that have appreciated over time.
If this already sounds confusing, it’s because inheritance rules can be complex and specific. An estate planning attorney will be able to walk you through whether this potential benefit, or any others, applies to you. Seeking advice from estate professionals ensures that you navigate this complicated paperwork legally and smoothly.
Unless you are inheriting an amount over the federal estate tax exemption amount, you will not have to pay federal estate taxes – which are as high as 40%. As of 2025, the federal estate tax exemption has increased to $13.99 million per individual, up from $13.61 million in 2024. This means that estates valued below this threshold are not subject to federal estate taxes. For married couples, the combined exemption allows for up to $27.98 million to be transferred tax-free.
It's important to note that the current elevated exemption levels are set to expire on December 31, 2025. Without legislative action, the exemption is scheduled to revert to approximately $7 million per individual, adjusted for inflation, in 2026. A CPA can help you navigate through the numerous rules, which can be confusing and costly if you make a mistake. There are also state estate and inheritance taxes to consider as well, so be sure to do your research and get help if you happen to live in one of the 18 states that have estate or inheritance taxes .
4. Take Time to Review Your Own Estate Plan.
As someone who is inheriting money – and maybe even acting as the executor of the estate – you’ll learn all about proper planning and communication. That understanding should motivate you to make your own estate administration as easy as possible after you are gone.
This includes keeping clear records of all your accounts, along with any estate plan documents including trusts , wills, powers of attorney and advance health care directives. And you should keep them all in a place that is accessible to those responsible for administering your estate.
Try to talk to your family about your finances while you are still around. Finding answers when someone is gone is far harder than having fearless conversations now. The best gift that you can give the friends and family you leave behind is doing proper planning.
Receiving an inheritance is an opportunity to make a difference in your own life. Take the time to map out your current financial position and future goals. Setting yourself up for a solid future is a great way to honor and remember the person who has passed.
Note: This item first appeared in Kiplinger Personal Finance Magazine, contributed by Halbert Hargrove Global Advisors, LLC (“HH”), and brought to you by the RJ Fichera Law Firm, where our mission is to provide trusted, professional legal services and strategic advice to assist our clients in their personal and business matters. Our firm is committed to delivering efficient and cost-effective legal services focusing on communication, responsiveness, and attention to detail. For more information about our services, contact us today!
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